That must've been interesting at times What's important often does not stand out but is simply standing quietly. Is Meav the tallest CW past or present? What about Orla, was she closest to Meav in height? How about Deidre, I never got to know her very well.
How tall was she as compared to Meav? Gail Sr. Member Posts: Mairead 5 ft. All right!! I would like to teach her more self-control which I feel she lacks compared to kids of her age and not let anger take over her.
She knows when she's done something wrong but she just can't control herself. What can I do to help her to become herself the cheerful little girl again? How can I teach her to share everything with her baby sister she's very aggressive and possessive and not good with sharing with other kids since young?
Looking forward to your advise. I am so sorry that your little girl is having such a hard time, and making life hard for you. We often act as if our children should take a new baby in stride and not be concerned. The truth is, it is a huge adjustment for our child and they need more love and attention from us than ever to manage it -- just at a time when we don't have enough hands or attention to go around, when we are sleepless, and when our child is at her least appealing.
But if you can see things from her perspective, you can help her find her way back to her happy, confident self. Since she began acting this way when she stopped napping, it is most likely that she is over-tired and that she therefore can't manage her emotions.
So things she might have taken in stride before this are now too much for her to handle. That said, it would be completely normal if her upset was being triggered by the baby. She feels disconsolate that she is no longer your beloved only baby, so she is whiny and easily upset. She feels that something has been stolen from her so she grabs the baby's things.
She feels disconnected from you, so she is defiant. She is afraid she is losing you so she wants you all the time. She knows she has lost her dad, so she can't bear to be with him and disappoint him further. And remember she is also quite tired because she no longer naps, so she doesn't have the inner resources to cope any more. When she gets home from preschool, can you put the baby in a carrier and focus only on snuggling on the couch with your big girl?
Read her stories, kiss her toes, let her talk about school. She needs a chance to unwind and discharge all that stress from her day, and to reconnect with you while doing it.
After that she will be able to settle down to play. No, she is behaving like this because she is very upset inside. She is afraid that you got a baby because she was not good enough and that you don't love her any more. She is especially afraid that her father does not love her any more, which is why he yells at her. She knows she is a bad person because she wishes her sister would go away and because she does not want to share with her sister and because she realizes that she is no longer a delight to you, only a source of frustration.
BUT your loving attention is what will cure her fear. She may need to do some crying and raging to get that fear out, but your acceptance of her feelings is what will heal her. And it is only your loving attention that can create the trust that is necessary before she will "show" you those feelings.
So as often as possible, build trust with her by listening, connecting, playing games she wants to. And help her express her feelings by playing games that surface those feelings. Here's a whole page of those games, please especially note the "Fix" game for kids with new siblings:.
Games for Connection and Emotional Intelligence. It is VERY common for kids to recover from a sibling's birth after a couple of months but then regress again at nine months or so. That's when babies start to get into their things, want their toys, etc. And the baby is clearly not going to go away.
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